A Nigerian woman’s bold declaration that she will only date men earning a minimum of ₦15 million monthly and owning a car has sparked heated debate across social media platforms. The lady’s comments, made in a viral video shared on platform X, have drawn mixed reactions, with some criticizing her demands as unrealistic and others defending her right to set her own relationship standards.
The Lady’s Expectations
According to the lady, her expectations are non-negotiable. “A guy must be earning ₦15 million monthly to date me because I want him to use his money to take care of me,” she stated. She also emphasized the importance of owning a car, saying, “I can’t date a guy that doesn’t have a car. I don’t want to be trekking around”. Her monthly expenditure of ₦2 million, she claims, is too high for a man earning ₦1 million to support.
Background and Controversy
The lady revealed that she’s not a university graduate, having dropped out due to financial hardship. Despite this, she has high expectations from her potential partner. This revelation has sparked controversy, with some questioning her priorities and others commending her confidence.
Public Reactions
Social media users have taken to the comment section to express their opinions. While some have criticized her demands as unrealistic, others have defended her right to set her own standards. Here are some reactions:
Criticism: @Kolaqhazim said, “Na this kind girl dem Dey use do money ritual”, implying that the lady might be involved in some form of materialistic or ritualistic practices.
Support: @LaughNLearnX tweeted, “It’s time for Nigerian men to match the same level of ruthlessness women show in choosing who they date”, suggesting that men should be more discerning in their choice of partners.
Mixed Reactions: @MAGUOWO questioned, “Your father or mama can’t even pay your school fees and take care of you but you want your boyfriend to do what your parents can’t do!”, highlighting the perceived disconnect between the lady’s expectations and her background.
Broader Context
This controversy comes amidst a larger discussion about relationships and materialism in Nigeria. Some individuals have been flaunting their wealth and luxurious lifestyles on social media, sparking debates about the role of money in relationships. For instance, a Nigerian lady recently regained attention for flaunting foreign currencies and an iPhone 15 Pro Max gifted by her foreign boyfriend, sparking discussions about the influence of materialism in relationships.
Conclusion
The Nigerian lady’s dating demands have ignited a firestorm of debate, with opinions sharply divided. While some have praised her confidence and clarity on what she wants, others have criticized her expectations as unrealistic and materialistic. As the conversation continues, it remains to be seen how this controversy will impact the lady’s life and relationships.
Source: Africa Publicity
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